Dream Dating and Relationships

It is obvious that the way men and women approach relationship is different.  Nothing unusual there.  But it is useful relationship intelligence to understand a bit more about how men and women are lined up towards intimacy. You can get info on Relationship Help here.

Men do not, as a general rule, innately understand some core skills around building intimacy.  They do not generally get much practice or put much attention on nurturing, empathizing, and focusing on the wants of others.

Sure, men can communicate effectively, but the way in which they communicate is usually to win and dominate.  Solving problems is a form of winning, and men often try to solve their mate’s problems when communicating.  Women also communicate just to connect, instead of just solve problems.

So men, speaking in large generalities here, know a lot about winning and losing, boundaries and control.  They may not know much about empathy and the value of nurturing others and focusing on the needs of others.

Growing up, boys play different games than girls.  Playing cowboys and Indians and playing army, boys learn about territory and dominance.  Nothing wrong with boys playing such games, it is actually good for them developmentally, but they don’t learn much about loving and empathizing and nurturing.  You can get more How To Get Relationship Help here.

Girls played with dolls.  They played house.  They had imaginary tea parties.  These are games of nurturing and socializing.  Girls actually learn and play at intimacy growing up.  This is a powerful difference.  So given the different ways genders are socialized, when it comes to building intimacy, who has the most innate skill?

Is it men, who learned early to say “I shot you, you are dead!”  Or is it women, who learned early how to nurture and empathize and socialize? 

Here’s the thing to take away from all this.  If you are a woman, dont just assume that men know what to do or how to get and stay close.  Don’t just get frustrated and want to give up.  Give them some guidance.  If you are a man, understand that it is useful at times to let women lead, to learn from them about how to connect and nurture and build intimacy.  You can learn more about love relationship advice  here.

I know what women are looking for in a man because I am a woman who has found what she is looking for. Of all the men that I have had in my life, this man has all the qualities of a keeper, unlike the others before him. Women should base their ideal man around my keeper.

One of most important qualities that my man has is his true masculinity. However, he still respects women completely and whole heartedly. He can be with his friends, and act completely macho, but still comes home to me and treats me with respect and compassion.

A real keeper does things not because he has to, but because he wants to. He listens to your needs. He does little things to make you feel special, like a card for no reason, rubbing your feet, and calling you “just because.”

A real man knows the importance of a real woman. A keeper will respect your opinion. He will come to his partner if he need direction, and he doesn’t feel emasculated when the woman is right. He takes pride in having a woman with some intellectual merit, and he doesn’t feel the need to make his woman feel less important than him.

Of course, all of the above are null and void if then man is brainless. As women, we have the need to be well understood. If you bore us in a conversation, and we can’t rely on you for sound advice, then we will have to get it elsewhere.

A real keeper is fluent in all of the languages of love, and he doesn’t need to be reminded. He has a keen sense of what is expected from him, and you do not have to remind him. He buys gifts without hints, he takes you out without being asked, and he stays one step ahead of all of your emotional needs.

Overall, a real man is not afraid of becoming Your Man because he knows he can belong to you and still be himself. He can use his knowledge of woman to really get to know you - really get to know you.

So, take it from a woman who has found her man. We are not looking for a man’s man or a macho man. We are looking for our man - the one treats like the queens we are and enjoys doing it.

I recollect when my ex better half broke up our relationship. Everything seemed to be going swell for nearly 2 years then suddenly I received the call I had been dreading… I only had to hear her say “We need to talk” and I knew precisely what was coming next… “I think we should take some space for ourselves”…

I was overwhelmed and bemused. I couldn’t think what to do next - I tried calling nevertheless my calls were never replied to. And it looked like she never got my voicemail either. I was a total mess and just sought-for anyone to guide me on the right path… if there actually was one!

My life was twisted around in a matter of minutes and I didn’t know how come. Soon I began researching… that’s when I happened upon a really intriguing thought that did not occurred to me before. It’s possible that my ex girlfriend was concealing a more distant set of emotions and just was hiding them with this lame excuse that “We got to have time”?

So, I did some further researching and found this chap called James Kern who knew what I was going through. He said he had been through it before plus that he had “cracked the code” to getting back with her. His 1 hour video about “Missing Your Ex? Get Her Back!” revealed to me WHY my ex had left and the video gifted me a full set of step-by-step directions to get her back.

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